The attempted assassination of former President Donald Trump is a heinous act of violence that also took the life of a rally attendee and seriously wounded two others. We pray for the wounded and recognize how things could have been much worse.

The loud chorus of condemnation from across the political spectrum is evidence that political violence remains beyond the pale. Sadly, however, this incident isn’t a complete surprise. We are becoming immune to the rising decibel level of angry political rhetoric that the opposing sides direct at each other. The shots that rang out in Butler, PA, must be a wake-up call that, as we have tragically seen time and time again, words do have consequences.

As religious leaders, condemnation, thoughts, and prayers are not enough. People must speak more softly and engage with others with whom they disagree.

During this time of year, Jews will commemorate the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem two thousand years ago. The Talmud relates that hatred caused the destruction and recounts several personal and political feuds that demonstrate the devastating consequences of dispute and disagreement.

It is not enough to condemn violence or call for lowering the volume of hateful rhetoric. Every individual should commit to bridging the gap. We can support different policies and politicians, but we must engage with one another and not ignore, belittle, or dismiss the other. Democrats and Republicans must speak to each other. Share concerns and have a robust disagreement, while not allowing the conversation to devolve into personal attacks or hysterical language.

“Hizaharu b’divreichem – be careful with your words.” (Pirkei Avot)

Let us all respect the power of words – and each other, and take care to proactively engage with those of different views so we can live together in a more civil society.
 

Rabbi Elie Weinstock, NYBR President

Rabbi Joseph Potasnik, NYBR Executive Vice President

Rabbi Diana Gerson, NYBR Associate Executive Vice President